BRINGING GASLIGHTING TO LIGHT, PART IV

Once you understand and can recognize the warning signs and negative effects of gaslighting, you can easily disentangle yourself from it, right? Not usually. While increased awareness is necessary to address gaslighting, it is not sufficient. It can take a large...

HERE’S YOUR BRAIN ON TRAUMA

Approximately 50% of the population will experience a traumatic event at some point in their lives. While reactions to trauma can vary widely, and not everyone will develop Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), trauma can change the brain in some predictable ways...

MY THERAPIST KEEPS TELLING ME TO BREATHE…. WHY?

If you’re like a lot of people who’ve been to therapy, you’ve probably heard your therapist tell you to breathe. The recommendation might have been in passing, or perhaps they even taught you some specific diaphragmatic breathing exercises to practice at home. Either...

ANXIETY: THE PERPETUAL GAME OF MENTAL WHAC-A-MOLE

Regardless of the type of anxiety you experience, you know it feels exhausting. This is for a couple of reasons. First, anxiety wears us out because it’s characterized by sympathetic nervous system arousal. This autonomic arousal, known as the “stress response” or the...

TO HEAL TRAUMA WORK WITH THE BODY, NOT JUST THE MIND!

What do you know about trauma? You probably know that when bad things happen some people get stuck there and some people don’t. You also probably know the symptoms like nightmares, feeling on edge, flashbacks, keeping others at a distance or not trusting, never being...